1)in a malay(muslim) custom..who ever married a malay have to convert into ..(muslim) and i am a chinese guy have to follow the malay custom..do i have to convert into malay and must cut off my foreskin?foreskin meaning is the guy thing have to cut the skin only..pls help.. 2)as i mentioned previous question,oh by the way i am chinese i met the girl(muslim), she loves me very much..and i do..but the thing is that i told her i lost my job,and in debts,owing bank,lost hse,credit card..and i told i dont want to make u suffer and u r better life without me..and she said (i dont want all the thing,all i want is love,and u only somemore,she said to me u dont give up u can do climb up again and i trust u and she also said dont leave me and she cry when i said i hate this life and i want to die)but i am scared i will ruined her life..what should i do..i think i cant climb up again.. i am a malaysian..