HSE
i can sense my boyfriend is losing hope & giving hope on our r/s. What should I do?
We been dating 1.5 yrs. Both of us were divorcee. This yr we are planning to get married n get a house. Since Jan, we argue alot as I find him delay time. Cny, he tried to make effort to assure me by bringin me bk for reunion, intro to his relatives n tell them & my parents we be getting a hse. However, this week, we had a big fight again as I ask him to view some flats, he gve excuses of being tire. I know he has come to a breaking pt as he is too tire due to 2 jobs and on top of that I was nt appreciative toward his efforts. Last nite, he finally told me he wont marry me as he don trust me n he don feel assured bec of the mistake i hve done 1 yr ago. Abort his child, but he forgive me n this 1 yr i worked hard to make remedy. i was insecure n kept bugging him since Jan till nw i felt he is so disappointed & lose hope in me that I didnt change but kept stressing him till he got scare. But he told me he still loves me. But tdy he react coldly & didnt text or call me. S he giving up?
Public Comments
- Personally I feel tat your bf is already having the idea of giving up this relationship. I believe he may have forgive you for the mistakes you have made but he will never forget it. No matter how hard you try, it is a fact that you can't deny that it never happened before. I suggest that both of you have a good talk on this issue. There is no point for both of you keep on dragging if things can't work out for you
