HSE

WHY ME!ahh?

My mother recntley got married is hse stupid I hate her...our father died 3years ago,,,,,,,,, and now this guy is living with us he beats me and my brother and sister and he's always bothering us especially my lil sister, my mother is only home on weekends because of her mobile job and when she's gone he takes care of us, he's always bothering my sister and I hear her cry at night, I'm not sure why though but he seems to be out to get her more than any of us I lock my door at night b/c if I dnt I feel like someones watching me, IM 13 turning 14 next month and I'm scared i dnt like this man at all I wanna tell my mom what he has doone to us but I want her to be happy ever since hey've gotten married she has bee she's 3 months pregnant and sge love us I'm Just scared and stuff I dnt hate her she just frustrates me b/c shes so blind

Public Comments

1. Hes beating you guys at that age? Thats a cause for concern, if your mother doesnt want to do anything about it call the police thats abuse.
2. you should report this man....i would be scared too...this is child abuse........good luck =)
3. talk to her and if that doesn't help, then report him. i'm sorry that you have been going through this when you shouldn't have to....
4. I would say talk to your mother about the situation and see where it goes from there! About the beating part i would call the authority's!
5. Tell her if she doesn't listen then tell her your going to call the cops and request to be emancipated (not that you will but to get her attention and to let her know you are serious) I hope that this works out. I hope she listens and I hope that things get better.
6. Tell another trusted adult, maybe a teacher or counselor at school. Maybe see if there is another family mamber or neighbor that can take you in. And until you do, avoid him and tell your little sister to lock her door at night. If she doesn't have a lock, maybe you should let her stay with you in your room, just so you can have safety in numbers. If he asks why she's sleeping in there, say she had a bad dream. This guy sounds like a creep and I wouldn't trust him alone with a little girl for obvious reasons.
7. You need to tell your mom what's going on asap. No good mother will love a man who hurts her children. You guys should come before any man, no matter how happy she is. If your mother doesn't listen, tell another trusted adult, such as a grandparent, aunt, or uncle. They can help your family get the help they need.
8. I am 32 now and have been exactly where you are. TELL her and get out of there. Explain to your mom that someday she will realize that this is a bad situation. She may not now but one day she will. Be strong it's not your fault and you deserve better. I never hated my mom either but actually felt sorry for her that she could not see the light. FInd a place to go and if your mom won't listen call family services yourself. Maybe even right after you read this!!! Don't wait for something real bad to happen, you will regret it for the rest of your life, I promise that.
9. CALL THE COPS! Sorry about your dad.
10. Tell your mother, Honey! She'll ALWAYS choose you over him, and if she doesn't, call the police!
11. I had a friend who was quiet and shy then one day we found out that his fater had been beating him and his mom and he took a baseball bat and beat his brains in. Needless to say we all looked at him a bit differently but him and his mom were very happy after this was all done. He of course had to go to counselling but anyone would after being made to snap. I'm not saying this is what you should do but if you can't record him and bust him in court then hey, if it's you or him.... Good Luck Hugs
12. doesn't matter what your mom thinks right now. if he is beating you guys you should get help. your mom cares for you and i'm sure if she knew what was happening she would do something about it
13. make ur sis sleep wit u and lock the door
14. Tell a teacher you trust or tell officials at school. They will ask you if you feel safe at home, if not they will get involved and get social services into the mix. Then the police or a social worker will talk to your mother about it and they will get you out of that place. If that man who isn't your father is abusing you then it is way wrong. He has no right to touch you or your siblings. Your mother should stay home to take care of you guys and not have some creepy man take care of the kids and abuse or touch kids who aren't his. She (your mother) should have told your stepdad to not touch you guys. He has no right. If you feel better telling a aunt or relative then tell them. I am pretty sure they will be on your side. Next time this man does any harm to you call the police and tell them you don't feel safe with that man in the house.
15. call social services if he beat you! im serious. even if your mom does love him, its not right that he hurts people. if you cant call,then tell the police, a teacher, guidance counselor, or anyone to get some help. have your brother and sister stay with you in your locked room at night. join clubs and sports at school so you dont have to be home longer. have you and your siblings go to friends houses a lot.
16. I feel sorry for you... I almost even cried when I read this... then again, I am very emotional... That is abuse, as those above told you, tell a teacher, councilor, any authority figure YOU trust... They will help, your mother will not be happy at first, but it is better for her to find out now before it gets even more serious than this... she will be happier if she finds out now... please tell someone... sorry *hug*
17. ok number 1 i thiink this guy might be "touching" your lil sister. number 2 talk to your mom number 3 ask a aunt/friend/cousin if you could stay with them number 4 tell a trusted adult [besides your mom] number 5 call cops
18. i would just report it to the police for abuse since he sounds like a psychopath